trends&myths.

“The family is central to the Creator’s plan for the eternal destiny of His children.” Delaying marriage is increasing. Childbirth is declining, while unwed births are on the rise. Cohabitation is increasing, along with premarital sex and working mothers. Are these matters critical, significant, or simply not a big deal?
Initially, my thought for the most part was that each of these were at least significant. But upon further reflection on myself and my beliefs, I’ve come to terms that I personally believe these are all critical and are things which should not be taken lightly. As to why I believe this, you can read “The Family: A Proclamation to the World” here.
The family, like marriage, isn’t a private matter. Social science proves that the family effects culture, just as culture affects the family. Everyone is affected, people! Sociology suggests that everyone has a role in culture and society. Thinking on a gospel level in regards to the trend of postponing families, this means we are also postponing the Lord’s plans. God has commanded that people are to multiply and replenish the earth, and it has been revealed that this commandment remains in force. This is not just a concern for two people but it is a global concern.
This week, in addition to trends, we discussed about different myths involving the family. Here are just a few:
-Good sex means good marriage. Wrong. Reality is that a good marriage will bring about good sex. Makes sense…
-Opposites attract. Sure, they attract. But that doesn’t always mean they will last. What differences seem cute and attractive now may later just become annoying. Reality is that people change. What helps a couple work is growing and changing with each other.
-A happy marriage means there is no conflict. Yikes, that must mean no one is happy in their marriage. While conflicts are hard, they can actually bring two together as they work together to solve a conflict and unite together.
-Children bring marital satisfaction. False.
I also found this article about some marriage myths I thought were interesting to read are here.